The River of Life

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Today’s blog is by IVC volunteer Rich Pozdol who serves at the Catholic Charities South Regional office in South Holland. Rich’s supervisor, Director Fred Shannon, passed away last week. We pray that God might lift up Fred and his family, and continue to bless the work of the Catholic Charities.

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I was meeting Fr. “Bo” T. M. Lyons, spiritual director extraordinaire, for dinner at Hogwild, a great barbeque place. I had ordered the barbeque ribs and Fr. Bo was having the one pound plus barbeque pork chop. Father Bo was in a philosophical mood and started one of his discourses.

“It occurs to me that life is like being in a river. The river is God, and God is constantly surrounding you and is always influencing you. In the first part of life you are constantly paddling up stream, trying to achieve all manner of things, including power, prestige, wealth, and position. Sometimes you try to acquire more material goods than is reasonable and healthy for any one person to have. How many houses, cars, TVs, suits, dresses, shoes, computers, etc. does one person really need? You work hard at trying to achieve all of these goals. Paddling upstream is hard work, and you expend great quantities of energy to get to where you are trying to go.”

“Fr. Bo,” I responded, “I think that it is called chasing the American dream.”

Fr. Bo went on. “At some point during the second half of life, through wisdom and grace, over the course of months and years, you gradually come to realize that paddling upstream to achieve all of your goals is too hard and not worth it. At this point, you reverse course and start paddling downstream. Your goals become easier to achieve because they are simpler. You feel more a part of the flow of the river. Life becomes more enjoyable. You see more of God in the river. You are more often aware of God. But you are still paddling. The work is not as hard, but you are still working.”

“Fr. Bo, I think that description fits my experience of retirement. I think the IVC experience fits in nicely here.”

“Yes,” he said, “but finally, if you are blessed, you realize that you don’t really have to paddle at all. All you have to do is let go and float. Now God is doing all of the work, and taking you exactly where He wants you to go. But you often go back to paddling, because you do not like giving up control. This is the work of the second half of life, learning to give up control and completely trust in God.”

I replied, “No one said it better than St. Augustine all those centuries ago: ‘Thou hast created us for thyself and our hearts are restless until they rest in Thee.’

Through the grace of God, may each and every one of us learn to let go more and more, and to allow ourselves to float in the surrounding glory of God’s presence, trusting completely in our God.

 

11 Responses to “The River of Life”

  1. Jan O'Halloran

    What a beautiful analogy, Rich. Thanks for sharing Fr. Bo’s words of wisdom with us. His idea of a river certainly fits my life. Now, I need to let go and start floating!

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    • Paul Schiff

      Inspirational theme this AM and throughout my life! I still use the serenity prayer as a guide for living my life.
      In LIGHT, Paul

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  2. Dennis Trimboli

    Thanks Rich.I feel like a failure when I am not paddling or achieving because that is what American society expects of me.

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  3. Marta Hernandez Sayeed

    Thenk you for sharing such a beautiful story. It is so hard to let go, but feels so peaceful when you are able to let go and let God.

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  4. Bob Castagna

    Rich,

    Thanks for sharing the inspiring words. Much appreciated.

    Blessings,

    Bob

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    • Bernie Hoffman

      Mr. Castagna –

      Here at Infant Jesus of Prague parish, Rich is a wonderful source of inspiration to a great many people. So is your son, Christian, and his young family….

      Reply

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