Signposts for the Journey

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This blog, by National Board Member Jim Haggerty, is a reflection on the spiritual readings and guide being used this month by volunteers in all regions across the country.

In my mind I can see Ignatius riding his mule on a dusty road from Rioja to Aragon in Spain shortly after his conversion at Loyola. He had met a Moor traveling on the same road, and they fell into a conversation about “spiritual things.” They agreed about many beliefs, but the Moor, though he could accept the Christian idea of the virgin birth, did not believe that Mary remained a virgin after that. Ignatius became more upset as the discussion continued, and the Moor quickly rode ahead. Feeling that the Moor had insulted Mary, Ignatius wondered if he should pursue him and kill him with his dagger. He couldn’t make up his mind. He knew where the Moor was going. At an upcoming crossroad, he decided to let the donkey have free reign. If the mule went left, he’d pursue the Moor and avenge the insult to Mary. If the mule went right, he’d continue on his way and not pursue the Moor. Fortunately, the mule stayed to the right. At that point in time, it is safe to say that Ignatius had a very rudimentary understanding of discernment and Christian decision-making.

 

Ignatius was profoundly influenced by his culture. The concepts of honor and loyalty, colored by arrogance, were deeply ingrained. He had not yet achieved a spirit of detachment and the freedom to make wise choices. We know this story, however, because Ignatius himself recounted this event some thirty- two years later. It is encouraging to hear his story as we struggle today to free ourselves from defective values in our own culture.

 

For me role models are an important element in this process of discernment. In his biography of St. Francis of Assisi, G.K. Chesterton said that if St. Francis was like Jesus, then Jesus was also like St. Francis. In other words, we can find Jesus in lives close to our own experience.

 

My brother, sister and I often reflect together on relatives we knew in the prior generation who touched us in ways we are still exploring. For example, I think of my Aunt Helen who was born in 1900. I treasure a beautiful portrait of her taken at my own wedding that captured her smile and bit of her soul.

 

In the early 1930s my Aunt Helen married and set up a household with my Uncle Archie. At the time, my father was living with and supporting his aging mother and his other sister, as his father had died at a young age. When my father became engaged to my mother, he thought he would continue with that responsibility. My Aunt Helen, however, insisted that her mother and sister move in with her and her husband. My father later believed that Helen knew their mother was failing. In fact, Helen subsequently cared for my grandmother through several strokes. Many other stories about Aunt Helen reflect similar examples of great generosity and caring. Such stories, when they linger in family memories, weave a beautiful pattern to follow and help us navigate important choices in life. In a frantic, individualistic and materialistic culture, such examples are important signposts.

 

I guess a wise mule would also be helpful.

Jim Haggerty and his wife live in Walton, a small N.Y. rural town in the foothills of the Catskills. They are both retired. Jim is a former Jesuit who spent several years in the Society in studies and active in various apostolic works. He taught in a Jesuit high school and in a higher achievement program for children from the inner city, worked in prison ministry, and at Nativity Mission Center in New York City. After leaving the Society, Jim worked for the thirty years with Catholic Migration and Refugee Services, United States Catholic Conference and Catholic Legal Immigration Network, CLINIC in various positions. During this time he obtained a law degree. Before retiring he was director of special projects working on a national effort to assist immigrants and asylum seekers in detention centers across the country. In this effort he helped develop a partnership with the Society of Jesus to create law fellowships in Jesuit and Catholic law schools. Jim and his wife were also “support people” for Jesuit volunteer communities in N.Y.C. for several years. After retirement Jim served on the Board of the Jesuit Refugee Service (JRS) and more recently he serves on the Board of the Ignatian Volunteer Corps. (IVC) Jim and his wife are active in their local town. Some of Jim’s favorite community efforts are playing traditional Irish music in a weekly session and helping run a monthly “coffee house.” The “session” raises money for a soup kitchen. The monthly coffee house brings free music to Walton.

6 Responses to “Signposts for the Journey”

  1. ellin

    My life has been blessed with MANY Aunt Helen’s…I TRY to remember that as I move along in years..the words “pay it forward”, random acts of kindness are some of the words that stir my heart.
    I have lived a blessed life. Thanks to many Aunt Helen’s.

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  2. Rosemary Jermann

    Loved your story, Jim, and the final sentence! Thanks. –Rosemary Jermann

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    • Gabriel

      Lynda: I definitely agree with you. I am also beelssd to find wonderful people in my parish and in the broader community that are outstanding role models that force me to step outside myself.

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  3. Bill Haggerty

    Another nice reading and your story about out Aunt Helen brought back many nice memories. I wish they were still with us so they could enjoy the many new members of our family. They always enjoyed seeing my kids and I know they would really enjoy our Haggerty, Pray and Houck grandkids. That is also true for Mom and Dad. Keep up your spiritual readings, very inspiring.

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  4. Christine Curran

    Thanks Jim. It’s good to remember all the people in our lives who have been examples of love and generosity.

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  5. Eileen Haggerty

    Jim,
    Your words are always inspiring. I also remember much about the Toveys and Aunt Bereneice. As you can see I got this one.

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